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Thursday, November 10, 2016

How To Become A Son of God

How To Become A Son Of God

John 1:12 KJV 12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, [even] to them that believe on his name:

There is no secret formula to become a son of God.  All you have to do is confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead you shall be saved. Rom 10:9-10 KJV 9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. 10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.  This is the only requirement to being born into the family of God as His son, His child, His new born baby in the spirit.  How to become a mature son of God, a son of wisdom, of hope for all things, a son of His character is another position of honor because it is not enough for God that we be newborn son’s but that we be sons that He can release His glory and His power to us in a great abundance.

If we were to compare this concept in the natural we would all realize that no parent wants their newborn son or daughter to stay at that stage and never develop any further, if fact it is not normal for a child not to grow toward adulthood from the moment it is born.  They must learn from new things from each stage of their development to add to what they already know and to assist them in current and future growth stages.

Being a son of God is a very special position.  Can you imagine a God who knows all things, all powerful, everywhere all of the time? God who created everything that is, that was and ever shall be creating us and then giving us the opportunity to do all that He does.

Becoming a mature son begins with us feeding on the sincere milk of the word which are the basic foundation things that lay the foundation for the additions that will come after being born again.  These are necessary for us to grow and become mature sons.

There are four functional things that we have to do if we are to become a son of God and they are found in John 1:12:

1.   We must one of the many that receive Him
2.   We must receive His Power
3.   We must go through the process to become
4.   We must call on His name

God wanted children and therefore He wanted His son to get married.  Christ His son came to the earth in the body of Jesus of Nazareth and we know Him as Jesus Christ.  But who can be the bride for Christ, His only begotten Son?  Those that will come to Him and allow Him to prepare them for His son to marry, they then become the bride of Christ.  In addition, as many that believe on Jesus Christ that are led by the Spirit of God (Holy Spirit) they are the sons of God. Rom 8:14 KJV 14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.

How did this happen.  Mary the mother of Jesus was impregnated by the Spirit of God (Holy Spirit) with a son, this then is the seed of God and becomes the part that is not corrupted but can function as you and I up to and including the time of His death, burial and resurrection.  God has predestined us to be His children by adoption and this process of adoption would change our blood line. 

We no longer are the sons of the sin nature of the first Adam but are now the product of the sinless Adam.  As a result we become sons of God and are also positioned as the bride of Jesus Christ. We see that in Rom 8:15-19 KJV 15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. 16 The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: 17 And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with [him], that we may be also glorified together. 18 For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time [are] not worthy [to be compared] with the glory which shall be revealed in us. 19 For the earnest expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God.
Since God has predestined us to be adopted as His sons we can be assured that we have only to say yes since we had nothing to with God’s choice in the matter. However we do have to be freed from sin and made blameless before Him, we have to be like Him in order to be His sons.

We know from our personal experiences that we cannot be blameless before Him without help and God knew that as well, therefore He prepared the wherewithal and the way for that to happen. As God’s sons we must be holy and blameless and we must be forgiven of sin which we have perpetuated down through the generations through the first Adam.

God prepared and executed a redemption plan that made all that He had in His mind for us possible.  We have an inheritance through Jesus Christ and we have changed our blood line in the spirit for the Adam that sinned to the Adam (Jesus Christ) that did not sin. Jesus Christ paid the price for our sin and He bought us back in right standing with God, the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit.  We are now the sons of God and we can come boldly to His throne of grace, why? Because we are already there, at the throne of God seated with God through and by the sacrifice and blood of Jesus Christ, Jesus is seated at the right hand of the throne of God and we that are His are there with him. We see where Jesus is seated in heaven in Heb 1:3 KJV 3 Who being the brightness of [his] glory, and the express image of his person, and upholding all things by the word of his power, when he had by himself purged our sins, sat down on the right hand of the Majesty on high;

Now we see that we are with in Eph 1:3-14 KJV 3 Blessed [be] the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly [places] in Christ: 4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love: 5 Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will, 6 To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved. 7 In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace; 8 Wherein he hath abounded toward us in all wisdom and prudence; 9 Having made known unto us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure which he hath purposed in himself: 10 That in the dispensation of the fulness of times he might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven, and which are on earth; [even] in him: 11 In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated according to the purpose of him who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will: 12 That we should be to the praise of his glory, who first trusted in Christ. 13 In whom ye also [trusted], after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise, 14 Which is the earnest of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto the praise of his glory.

Being a son of God means that you grow to a place of maturity that allows God to use you to take care of His business and God business is to manage the earth and destroy the works of the Devil.  There is also a responsibility to God to be in relationship with Him that is appropriate for a son with his father.  Being a son of God is not a masculine word.  There is no gender to being a son of God; therefore females also have the responsibility to uphold their part of the sonship to our Father God Jehovah.

God’s desire for His children to mature and do the work of an adult saint of God is no different from the desire of our natural parents to see us be the best we can be and to be a responsible adult not needing for someone else to take care of us because we cannot do it for ourselves.  God has equipped His children to take care of themselves as adult Christians and to be able to take care of others who cannot yet take care of themselves.

We can understand this better when we realize that as adults in the natural we are expected to have to skills to maintain employment, be a successful entrepreneur, be a competent business manager, be able to lead a corporation into financial abundance etc., yet when it comes to God’s business we tend to think that someone else should do it, or we are not competent and that is true if we are still an immature Christian.

As an adult son of God we are expected to:

1.   Win every battle we have with the Devil because he is already defeated.
2.   We are expected to overcome every situation that exalts itself above the word of God. 
3.   We expected to overcome challenges of sickness that attacks our body, overcome any life challenges and be victorious in everything including our finances.
4.    All of this is to be accomplished by submitting to the ministry of Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit is here with us to help us do what God has called us to do. 

We are anointed to do certain things and all we have to do is understand what God has anointed us to do and do that.  One example of what God has anointed us to do is what Jesus Christ did; Jesus even said what that entailed in Luke 4:18. But it is also mentioned in Isa 61:1-11.  Let us take a closer look and is mentioned in Isaiah 61.        

Isa 61:1-11 KJV 1 The Spirit of the Lord GOD [is] upon me; because the LORD hath anointed me to:
1.   Preach good tidings unto the meek;
2.   He hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
3.   To proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to [them that are] bound;
4.   To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, and the day of vengeance of our God;
5.   To comfort all that mourn;
6.   To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them:
a.    beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning,
b.   the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified.
And they shall build the old wastes, they shall raise up the former desolations, and they shall repair the waste cities, the desolations of many generations. 5 And strangers shall stand and feed your flocks, and the sons of the alien [shall be] your plowmen and your vinedressers. 6 But ye shall be named the Priests of the LORD: [men] shall call you the Ministers of our God: ye shall eat the riches of the Gentiles, and in their glory shall ye boast yourselves. 7 For your shame [ye shall have] double; and [for] confusion they shall rejoice in their portion: therefore in their land they shall possess the double: everlasting joy shall be unto them. 8 For I the LORD love judgment, I hate robbery for burnt offering; and I will direct their work in truth, and I will make an everlasting covenant with them. 9 And their seed shall be known among the Gentiles, and their offspring among the people: all that see them shall acknowledge them, that they [are] the seed [which] the LORD hath blessed. 10 I will greatly rejoice in the LORD, my soul shall be joyful in my God; for he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation, he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decketh [himself] with ornaments, and as a bride adorneth [herself] with her jewels. 11 For as the earth bringeth forth her bud, and as the garden causeth the things that are sown in it to spring forth; so the Lord GOD will cause righteousness and praise to spring forth before all the nations.

One of the challenges that the sons of God are confronted with is sadness because of the process of growing up in God, but God has fixed that for every one of them.  All they have to do is love righteousness and hate evil. This will cause them to receive the oil of Joy and set them above their fellows.  Psa 45:7 KJV 7 Thou lovest righteousness, and hatest wickedness: therefore God, thy God, hath anointed thee with the oil of gladness above thy fellows.
Heb 1:9 KJV 9 Thou hast loved righteousness, and hated iniquity; therefore God, [even] thy God, hath anointed thee with the oil of gladness above thy fellows.

We are the Temple of God

We are the Temple of God

IN GOD’S PRESENCE WE CAN
OVERCOME THE CHALLENGES OF OUR LIVES
Psalms 27:4-5
4 One [thing] have I desired of the LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to enquire in his temple. 5 For in the time of trouble he shall hide me in his pavilion: in the secret of his tabernacle shall he hide me; he shall set me up upon a rock. KJV

INTRODUCTION

House - 

The structures in which people lived in Bible times. The word translated as house appears often in the Bible. It is used of any dwelling place, whether the hut of a peasant or tent.
Temple -     
1.    Heb. term for temple is hekal, an old Akkad. word signifying "palace, a large building," frequently joined with Jehovah, and denoting "the palace of deity.
2.    Occasionally it is also qualified by qodesh ("sanctuary"), to designate its sacredness.
3.    Sometimes the simpler phrase "house of Jehovah" (Heb. beth yhwh).

TABERNACLE - the tent which served as a place of worship for the nation of Israel during their early history.
IN THE OLD TESTAMENT THE TABERNACLE AND THE TEMPLE REPRESENT JESUS CHRIST SYMBOLICALLY AND IT WAS THE PLACE WHERE GOD LIVED

ROCK - The word rock is often used figuratively in the Bible to speak of God and Christ
  • As Rock, God is the Creator  (Deut. 32:18) -18 Of the Rock [that] begat thee thou art unmindful, and hast forgotten God that formed thee. KJV
  • His people's strength (Deut. 32:4), 4 [He is] the Rock, his work [is] perfect: for all his ways [are] judgment: a God of truth and without iniquity, just and right [is] he. KJV
  • His people's defense and refuge (Ps. 31:2-3; 94:22) - 2 Bow down thine ear to me; deliver me speedily: be thou my strong rock, for an house of defense to save me. 3 For thou [art] my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name's sake lead me, and guide me. KJV
  • His people's salvation (Ps. 89:26) -26 He shall cry unto me, Thou [art] my father, my God, and the rock of my salvation. - KJV
  • In the New Testament, Christ is the Rock from whom the Spirit of life flows (John 4:13-14) 13 Jesus answered and said unto her, Whosoever drinketh of this water shall thirst again: 14 But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life. KJV
  •  The foundation of the church (Matt. 16:18) - 18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. KJV and its cornerstone (Eph. 2:20) 20 And are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner [stone]; KJV.
 THE PLACE WHERE GOD LIVED   (His Presence)
David understood the importance of being in the house of someone that will love, protect and take care of you.
In the natural when you go to someone’s house you expect the following things to happen:  


The people to be there (their presence)
To fellowship with them while you are there

 You expected to be protected by the host if needed. 
They have a plan in case of fire, storm etc. 
You know the purpose of your being there by invitation or request     
You usually know the attitude of the person you are visiting because of your relationship with them
You also know that under normal circumstances the person is not going to change their mind about your being welcome after they extend an invitation.
David also knew some things about God because of His relationship with God:

The Presence of God -- Psalm 16:11 - 11 Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence [is] fulness of joy; at thy right hand [there are] pleasures for evermore. KJV (The Presence of God – The anointing the endowment of the Holy Spirit)

Thy presence if fullness of Joy

At Thy right hand there are pleasures forever more

The Fellowship of God -  David that if he fellowship with God He would be able to be fruitful and have good success.  On many Occasions He asked God questions and got answers.  1 Joh 1:3- 3 That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship [is] with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ. - KJV

Fellowship with God is essential for fruitfulness.  John 15:4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me. KJV

The Protection of God – Jer. 36:26 Shelter and protection - 26 But the king commanded Jerahmeel the son of Hammelech, and Seraiah the son of Azriel, and Shelemiah the son of Abdeel, to take Baruch the scribe and Jeremiah the prophet: but the LORD hid them. (KJV)
The Strength of God – Psalm 50:1  God ruler ship is supreme – No one is greater in strength than God 
The nature of God Num 23:19-20 –19 God [is] not a man, that he should lie; neither the son of man, that he should repent: hath he said, and shall he not do [it]? or hath he spoken, and shall he not make it good? 20 Behold, I have received [commandment] to bless: and he hath blessed; and I cannot reverse it. KJV God is Immutable (unchanging) and Impartial.

The perfections of God – His Beauty
His Holiness Ps 110:3 - 3 Thy people [shall be] willing in the day of thy power, in the beauties of holiness from the womb of the morning: thou hast the dew of thy youth. KJV
His Goodness – Zach. 9:17 - 17 For how great [is] his goodness, and how great [is] his beauty! corn shall make the young men cheerful, and new wine the maids. KJV
David desired to stay in the presence of God not just because God was a good friend --- He was after God’s heart.
  • He did not want to sin
  • He did not want to be out of the will of God
  • He did not want to be overrun by his enemies
  • He wanted to enjoy the eternal goodness of God
  • He wanted to be able to ask questions and Get answers
  • He wanted God’s Protection. He knew that trouble would come because He was well acquainted with trouble. Therefore when trouble came He wanted protection.
DAVID WANTED TO BE WITH GO ALL THE TIME

APPLICATION:
If we are saved we know that God is with us all the time but are we in His presence.  Our bodies are the temples of God. 1 Cor 3:16 16  Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? KJV

We may if we choose take our temple anywhere and do anything. Some of these places and actions will inhibit the anointing of God.
The anointing is what we want to be in operation as much as possible.
David wanted to live for God.
David did not continue to repeat his sins. 

He repented for real. It was not an apology to God, he turned from what he was doing and to what God was telling him to do. 

But He knew that the only way to make that real in his life was to stay in the house of the Lord and inquire of Him.
  
DAVID DISCOVERED WHAT HE NEEDED TO DO TO OVERCOME ANY CHALLENGE OF HIS LIFE
-----WE CAN DO THE SAME -------
We are the temple of the Lord  -  1 Cor 3:16 16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?

We can inquire anytime we want or need to do so
If we desire to run hard after God’s heart David had the answer
1.     What did David do First?  Desire from the Lord and actively Seek to remain in His Presence
       while here on earth and eternally.
  
2.    Why did David do what He didTo Behold His Beauty
To Inquire Of Him
 Because He is my protection
 He will Hide me in the Secret of His Tabernacle
The Importance of the place where God lives:
 His presence
 His council
 His strength
 His will
 His peace
THE BOTTOM LINE ----FOR GOD’S TEMPLES IS TO STAY IN THE ENVIRONMENTS THAT ENABLES THE HOLY SPIRIT TO OPERATE
 IF YOU DO:
1.    You can enjoy the rest of God (peace) then you can get more of the rest (what God has for you)
2.    WHY:  You desire the ability to be able to withstand the challenges in your life.
    • Seek and Receive God’s Council
    • Strengthen myself for what ever come my way good or evil
    • Stay in God’s will (not my will but His will be done)
    • Rest in His peace (no matter what)
3.    Experience the Victory that God has already provided
Behold His Beauty (righteousness and goodness).
    • Ask questions so as to make the right decision
    •  Receive His protection in times of trouble


Eph 2:20-22 And are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner stone;21 In whom all the building fitly framed together groweth unto an holy temple in the Lord: 22 In whom ye also are builded together for an habitation of God through the Spirit. KJV

Is your heart ache Making or breaking you?

 Will you be made complete (whole)?

Is your heart ache making or breaking you?
The definition of whole is a thing that is complete in itself 

God’s heart aches will lead you to Him

Your heart aches are the things you love
  To have a feeling of love for; to regard with affection or good will; as, to love one's children and friends; to love one's country; to love things, positions, passions, or status, to love one's God.

This will always lead you back to you no matter what you do or what is done for you it is never enough because it leads back to you.  Because you will try to fix it by whatever means possible and it never works. When it come back you find  another fix but no satisfaction so you go after the next available thing. Whatever you try is never enough to make you whole and satisfy the heart aches of that particular love

We want to fix things that only God can fix

Love is what you have in the heart not in the field.  In the field you always think that someone else has it better than you, someone gets more opportunities than you, someone is loved more than you, someone has more things than you, your case is worse than everybody’s so you want that fixed, however your fixes are not enough because you have the wrong perception of the problem and the solution.   

Whatever ever you are longing for, it does not matter what it is, it may be something that you want, to hold, to look good, to be smart, to have an education, to be married, to have children if you are married or to get married and have children, to be single (which is not the same as being unmarried), to be rich, to be famous etc.  It will not be enough because what you desire is to fill a place in you that belongs to God.  He loves you, cares for you, will keep you, feed you, take care of you, anything you ask that is in His word you can have because He is your husband but He will not give you that thing that you love more than Him.  He is a jealous God!

Trying to fix things that can’t be fixed causes wasted time, frustration, and misuse of authority

RACHEL.  Who is Rachel?   Her name means (Lamb) - the youngest daughter of Laban, who is the brother of Rebekkah, who is the mother of Jacob.  She is Jacobs second wife.  What is known of the character of Rachel?  One of the first noticeable traits of her character was deception and lying in that she stole her father's idols and hid them from him when he accused Jacob of taking them.  The Bible does not say why she thought she needed those idols, but perhaps she though that they could help her in some form or fashion, maybe even in child bearing.  She seems to be more like Laban her father, in that she intentionally hid from Jacob the fact that she had stolen her fathers idols when they left to return to land of Canaan. She envied her sister and demanded children from her husband.  Gen 30:1 And when Rachel saw that she bare Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister; and said unto Jacob, Give me children, or else I die. 


She was beautiful on the outside but on the inside she needed change – She stole her father’s idols and carried idol god’s with Jacob when they left her father’s house to return with Jacob to his home and the consequence of that was mentioned in (Jeremiah 31:15-22).  She was so stuck on what she though would make Jacob happy she lost track of all the blessing that God had given her. No matter what you think would make you beautiful, make you look good to other people, make you feel good because of this or that it will not be enough. 

Facts:  She was loved of Jacob – She was beautiful to Jacob – She was Jacob’s favorite -
Jacob only wanted her – She was offered the best of everything – her children were blessed one of them (Joseph) saved the nation of Israel.  Her name means lamb (lambs need constant care) so she would always think like a lamb and never grew up to a mature state.

She had a special heart ache (she wanted Children by her husband – she was barren), the following are the characteristics of her heart ache:
  1. Low self esteem
  2. Envied her sister even thou her sister was not loved
  3. Discontent because she wanted children
  4. Fretful and impatient with Jacob because he did not produce children
  5. Greatly grieved because of lack of children
  6. Moved Jacob to anger because he could do nothing to give her children
  7. Being beautiful was not enough
  8. Being loved was not enough
  9. Being the favorite was not enough
  10. Being the only one that Jacob wanted was not enough
  11. Receiving the best of everything was not enough
  12. She had one son by her maid and that was not enough
  13. She had a second son by her maid and that was not enough
  14. Finally God remembered her and gave her a son even as she was having him she wanted another that was still not enough Genesis 30:23-24 23 
  15. She became pregnant and gave birth to a son and said, "God has taken away my disgrace." 24 She named him Joseph, and said, "May the LORD add to me another son." 
  16. She now has three son's and that is still not enough, she wanted another son.
 Jeremiah 31:15-22

15 Thus saith the LORD; A voice was heard in Ramah, lamentation, and bitter weeping; Rahel weeping for her children refused to be comforted for her children, because they were not.
16 Thus saith the LORD; Refrain thy voice from weeping, and thine eyes from tears: for thy work shall be rewarded, saith the LORD; and they shall come again from the land of the enemy.
17 And there is hope in thine end, saith the LORD, that thy children shall come again to their own border. 18 I have surely heard Ephraim bemoaning himself thus; Thou hast chastised me, and I was chastised, as a bullock unaccustomed to the yoke: turn thou me, and I shall be turned; for thou art the LORD my God. 19 Surely after that I was turned, I repented; and after that I was instructed, I smote upon my thigh: I was ashamed, yea, even confounded, because I did bear the reproach of my youth.20 Is Ephraim my dear son? is he a pleasant child? for since I spake against him, I do earnestly remember him still: therefore my bowels are troubled for him; I will surely have mercy upon him, saith the LORD. 21 Set thee up waymarks, make thee high heaps: set thine heart toward the highway, even the way which thou wentest: turn again, O virgin of Israel, turn again to these thy cities. 22 How long wilt thou go about, O thou backsliding daughter? for the LORD hath created a new thing in the earth, A woman shall compass a man. KJV

Who is Leah?  Her name means (Gazelle).  She is the oldest daughter of Laban, who is the brother of Rebekkah, who is the mother of Jacob.  She is Jacobs first wife.  Laban, her father deceitfully gave her in marriage to Jacob instead of her younger sister Rachel (Genesis 29:16-30). Although Rachel was the more beautiful of the two daughters of Laban and obviously was Jacob's favorite wife, the Lord blessed Leah and Jacob with six sons-Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Judah (Genesis 29:31-35), Issachar, and Zebulun (Genesis 30:17-20) - and a daughter, Dinah (Genesis 30:21). Leah's maid, Zilpah, added two more sons: Gad and Asher (Genesis 30:9-13).

What is known of the character her character, she was obedient to her father and to her husband.  She was willing to make peace with her husband, but never blamed him for her dilemma.  With the help of her father she sneaked and married her sister fiancee and did not tell her sister.  She deceived her sister and Jacob because she did not tell them that she was going to marry Jacob. She hoped to have him as her husband only. She blamed her sister for stealing her husband.  She believed that it was her sister's fault that she did not have her husband by herself.  She perceived that her sister took him from her.  She believed that marrying him first was good enough for him.   She thought that since she married him first, she must have done something wrong to lose him, therefore, it was just a matter of doing something right to get him back.  She was not a complainer but she kept those thought in her mind.  She wanted the best but did not understand that she already had the best.  She searched for love of her husband in her children and was willing to use them to get to him to love her.

Facts:  She was not considered beautiful by man but that was not God’s idea of beauty, she loved a man that did not love her, would never love her because he did not choose her.  If he had chosen her perhaps she would have been beautiful to him, but she was disillusioned because she though she could do something to make him love her but she could not.  She did not understand that she was beautiful because God said so not man.  She kept trying to please people and though that this next thing that I do will do it but she did not know that other people’s idea of you cannot be your reality. She was submitted to her father and to her husband.  She never blamed her husband or her father for her predicament.  She never asked to be free or to leave because she was not loved.  She thought that she could make love happen so she used people or whatever she could to make that happen.  God saw that she was not loved so he opened her womb and blessed her with an abundance of children and one of them was used to bring Jesus Christ who came to save the world. Rachel’s son helped save a nation but her descendant was in the bloodline of Jesus Christ who saved the world.  Her name means gazelle (gazelles are wild and can take care of themselves) so she was always going to be able to make it thru whatever she had to.  Letting God take care of her was not in her mindset at first but she learned that there are some things that you cannot change.  She is remembered as Jacob’s ugly wife that gave birth to the son through whom Jesus Christ came into the earth.

Her special heart ache (she wanted her husband to love her - she was unloved) the results of which are as follows:
1.     She perceived that she had lost her husband's love to her sister
2.     No one loved her, no one was  making her their choice
3.     No husband prospects so she settled for being second
4.     She was the other woman not by her husband’s choice but by her father’s
5.     She was never going to have the upper hand no matter what happened.
6.     She thought she could change things by what she did or how she looked
7.     God blessed her with 4 sons to encourage her so that she would have a family and some children that loved her unconditionally. But that was not enough she did not see that as a blessing all she wanted to do was use that blessing to help her win a love that she had lost to her sister that was never lost, you can’t lose what never belonged to you.
8.     God blessed her with a son because she was not loved she named him REUBEN [ROO ben] (behold a son) - the firstborn son of Jacob, born to Leah in Paddan Aram (Genesis 29:31-32; 35:23). Leah named her first son Reuben because the Lord had looked upon her sorrow at being unloved by her husband. By presenting a son to Jacob, she hoped he would respond to her in love. But that was not enough
9.     God blessed her with a second son.  She named him Simeon[SIM ih un] (God hears) - Genesis 29:33 33 She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, "Because the LORD heard that I am not loved, he gave me this one too." So she named him Simeon.  But that was not enough
10.  God blessed her with a third son.  She named him Levi - [LEE vigh] (joined)  Genesis 29:34 34 Again she conceived, and when she gave birth to a son she said, "Now at last my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons." So he was named Levi. NIV But that was not enough
11.  Finally she get's the revelation that Jacob’s not loving her has nothing to do with what she can do or not do it was always his choice about who he loved.  Now she understands that it is God that really loves her and God gave her another son and she called him Judah 29:35 35 She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, "This time I will praise the LORD." So she named him Judah. Then she stopped having children. NIV.  It was thru Judah that the whole world was saved.  But that was not enough
12.  Now she begins to compete with her sister and continuously looks for opportunity to spend time with Jacob.  The opportunity comes and she jumps on it. Surely all of this will be over if I can win my husband over my sister.  I want what she has and that will be enough.  But that was not enough
13.  She uses mandrakes to acquire from her sister time with Jacob.  She has a fifth son and now she is using that to compete with her sister 18 Then Leah said, "God has rewarded me for giving my maidservant to my husband." So she named him Issachar. But that was not enough
14.  Leah conceived again and bore Jacob a sixth son. 20 Then Leah said, "God has presented me with a precious gift. This time my husband will treat me with honor, because I have borne him six sons." So she named him Zebulun.  
15.  But that was not enough

Look at what she says in this passage Genesis 30:14-21 14 During wheat harvest, Reuben went out into the fields and found some mandrake plants, which he brought to his mother Leah. Rachel said to Leah, "Please give me some of your son's mandrakes ."
15 But she said to her, "Wasn't it enough that you took away my husband? Will you take my son's mandrakes too?" "Very well," Rachel said, "he can sleep with you tonight in return for your son's mandrakes ."
16 So when Jacob came in from the fields that evening, Leah went out to meet him. "You must sleep with me," she said. "I have hired you with my son's mandrakes ." So he slept with her that night.
17 God listened to Leah, and she became pregnant and bore Jacob a fifth son.
18 Then Leah said, "God has rewarded me for giving my maidservant to my husband." So she named him Issachar.  
19 Leah conceived again and bore Jacob a sixth son.
20 Then Leah said, "God has presented me with a precious gift. This time my husband will treat me with honor, because I have borne him six sons." So she named him Zebulun.  
21 Some time later she gave birth to a daughter and named her Dinah. NIV

Rachael wanted children.  She needed that to complete her life, she did not want to live without children, she wanted them so bad that she said give me children or I will die.  In fact at the birth of her second child she did die.

Genesis 30:1-2 30:1 When Rachel saw that she was not bearing Jacob any children, she became jealous of her sister. So she said to Jacob, "Give me children, or I'll die!"
2 Jacob became angry with her and said, "Am I in the place of God, who has kept you from having children?" NIV

Do you have a heartache that is leading you to die in some area?

Leah wanted Jacob to love her as his wife.  She was willing to use her children and even purchase him sexually with her mandrakes and God listened to her.  Mandrakes were pagan fertility practices.

Are you willing to be second just to have a man?
Are you willing to raise his children knowing that he is comfortable with his wife and is not planning to leave even thought he has been telling you that for years?
Is your makeup the reason you look beautiful?
Could you stop using makeup today and still think that you look beautiful?
Do you need to be constantly reminded that you look great?
What is the price that you would pay to get your heartache fix?

Both of these women were blessed of God, but they did not see themselves blessed.  Each of them kept trying to fix the heart ache that they imagined would make things complete,(whole)

Can you see your blessing?
Do you know how much the Lord loves you?

Is your heart ache bigger to you than all that God has given you?  If so, consider the matter and let the Lord make you complete (whole).